[转帖]相濡以沫、相忘于江湖（吐血推荐）

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<font face="黑体">世界上只有两种可以称之为浪漫的情感<wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体" size="3">一种叫相濡以沫，另一种叫相忘于江湖</span><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体" size="3">我们要做的是争取和最爱的人相濡以沫</span><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体" size="3">和次爱的人相忘于江湖</span><wbr><span style="FONT-SIZE: 13px; LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体" size="3">也许不是不曾心动，不是没有可能，只是有缘无份，情深缘浅，我们爱在不对的时间</span><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体" size="3">回首往事的时候，想起那些如流星般划过生命的爱情，</span><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体" size="3">我们常常会把彼此的错过归咎为缘份，</span><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体" size="3">其实说到底，缘份是那么虚幻抽象的一个概念<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">,</span><wbr>真正影响我们的，</span><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体" size="3">往往就是那一时三刻相遇与相爱的时机<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">,</span><wbr>男女之间的交往，</span><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体" size="3">充满了犹疑忐忑的不确定与欲言又止的矜持，</span><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体" size="3">一个小小的变数，就可以完全改变选择的方向</span><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体" size="3">如果彼此出现早一点<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">,</span><wbr>也许就不会和另一个人十指紧扣</span><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">, </span><wbr>又或者相遇的再晚一点<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">,</span><wbr>晚到两个人在各自的爱情经历中慢慢地学会了包容与体谅<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">,</span><wbr>善待和妥协，</span><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体" size="3">也许走到一起的时候<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">,</span><wbr>就不会那么轻易的放弃<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">,</span><wbr>任性地转身<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">,</span><wbr>放走了爱情</span><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体" size="3">在你最美丽的时候<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">,</span><wbr>你遇见了谁？</span><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体" size="3">在你深爱一个人的时候<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">,</span><wbr>谁又陪在你身边</span><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">? </span><wbr>爱情到底给了你多少时间？</span><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体" size="3">去相遇与分离<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">,</span><wbr>去选择与后悔？</span><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体" size="3">不是不心动<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">,</span><wbr>不是不后悔<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">,</span><wbr>但已经没有时间再去相拥</span><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">, </span><wbr>如果爱一个人而无法在一起<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">,</span><wbr>相爱却无法在适当的时候相遇<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">,</span><wbr>如果爱了</span><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">, </span><wbr>却爱在不对的时候<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">,</span><wbr>除了珍藏那一滴心底的泪<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">,</span><wbr>无言的走远<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">,</span><wbr>又能有什么选择？</span><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体" size="3">要在时间的荒野<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">,</span><wbr>没有早一步也没有晚一步</span><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">, </span><wbr>于千万人之中<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">,</span><wbr>去邂逅自己的爱人<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">,</span><wbr>那是太难得的缘份</span><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">, </span><wbr>更多的时候<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">,</span><wbr>我们只是在彼此不断地错过</span><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">, </span><wbr>错过杨花飘风的春<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">,</span><wbr>又错过了枫叶瑟索的秋</span><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">, </span><wbr>直到漫天白雪<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">,</span><wbr>年华不再<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">,</span><wbr>在一次次的心酸感叹之后</span><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">, </span><wbr>才能终于了解<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">——</span><wbr>即使真挚<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">,</span><wbr>即使亲密<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">,</span><wbr>即使两个人都已是心有戚戚</span><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">, </span><wbr>我们的爱<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">,</span><wbr>依然需要时间来成全和考验</span><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体" size="3">这世界有着太多的这样那样的限制与隐秘的禁忌</span><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">, </span><wbr>又有太多难以预测的变故和身不由已的离合<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">,</span><wbr>一个转身</span><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">, </span><wbr>也许就已经一辈子错过<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">,</span><wbr>要到很多年以后<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">,</span><wbr>才会参透所有的争取与努力</span><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">, </span><wbr>也许还抵不过命运开的一个玩笑<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">,</span><wbr>上帝只在云端眨了一眨眼</span><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">, </span><wbr>所有的结局<span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">,</span><wbr>就都已经完全改变</span><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体"><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times'">.</span><wbr>在对的时间，遇见对的人，是一种幸福</span><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体" size="3">在对的时间，遇见错的人，是一种悲伤</span><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体" size="3">在错的时间，遇见对的人，是一声叹息</span><wbr><span style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em"><font face="黑体" size="3">在错的时间，遇见错的人，是一种无奈</span>